I just came back from a very intense week in my home city Timisoara, after participating at a business retreat.

If you are reading this I absolutely believe that you and I have one thing in common : We want to constantly improve our lives and be the best version of ourselves. But unfortunately, many people have lived their lives pretty much the same way for a very long time.

“Don’t dare to be different, dare to be yourself — if that doesn’t make you different then something is wrong.” ― Laura Baker

You are capable of making the biggest transformation of your life. Significant, lasting changes shouldn’t take you years. But it means stepping out of your comfort zone and beyond your current way of life and embracing new habits. To create the level of life you ultimately want, you have to change something you do daily.

Your life is your signature creation, because you are the CREATOR of your life. It is your duty to live true to yourself, with authenticity. Your life’s mission is to express yourself boldly, create what you love and love what you create. It’s about expanding and living your vision of yourself.

If you want to change anything in life you have to understand that there is only one thing that can help you and that is your commitment. This is the most important step towards making positive changes in your life.

You must first make a commitment. You have to decide that you really want to make a change or transform your life this year, and that it’s more important than almost anything else. And find the things that eat up your time that are less important than the changes you want to make.

Find Your Why

We are all searching clarity in finding our own path through life, to find our mission and what defines us as who we are. Clarity it’s the only way to reach deeper into yourself to find out what makes you come alive. We all start from somewhere confusing, because you probably like to do a lot of things.

Most people’s lives are still not perfectly clear. It’s a struggle almost every adult goes through.

“Knowing your why is an important first step in figuring out how to achieve the goals that excite you and create a life you enjoy living (versus merely surviving!). Indeed, only when you know your ‘why’ will you find the courage to take the risks needed to get ahead, stay motivated when the chips are down, and move your life onto an entirely new, more challenging, and more rewarding trajectory.” - Margie Warrell

Asking the right questions can be a very powerful way to get to know who you really are, what beliefs and values you hold, and ultimately, get clear about what you truly desire to achieve in life. When it comes to understanding yourself better and finding out exactly what you want to achieve in life, one of the best ways to start with is by asking yourself the right questions. Here are some of the quality questions that help you get quality answers. These questions have helped me along the way and some of them have been reminded to me this past weekend during the intense 3 days training sessions.

Where am I and what am I doing here?
What activities or things that I do give me the most joy and satisfaction?
If everything is perfect and happens according to my plan, how will my life look like in the next 10 years?
Why do I wake up in the morning and what are the things I’m looking forward to?
What is the one thing I can do today to get closer to my ideal life?
How much do I want to earn per day and what should I do today to earn this amount?

Millions of people have no clue what they want to do with themselves. And that’s okay. Self-discovery is a journey.

Start your journey now and ask yourself these questions that will create a road map for you from where you are to where you want to be.

So, which question you find the most helpful? Let me know in the comment section below :)

With love and respect,

Timea